Becoming No-One
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​A 1-day retreat for women who's vocation is to be of service.
Becoming No-One, why would we be interested in this?
On a rational level it might not make much sense.. but you're the type of woman who doesn't need the minds validation anyway. You feel, you hear the whispers and you see.
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And this is exactly how you go about your mission to support this planet. You feel, see and hear what is needed for the people you cross paths with. You know the potential of human kind and you want nothing more than to guide them there.
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But on this path of service you will inevitably have to go through your own processes first. You know, as you have lived through it many many times, that your own initiations in this life are a torch for those on the same path. You embody growth.
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Nevertheless it's not an easy path. But a rewarding and fulfilling one. A path you would choose over and over again.
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And it's on this path that we have the opportunity to explore what this Life is truly about. Who am I really? What is Life really?
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And I don't mean: I am a woman, an extrovert, a coach, an artist, a priestess, a business woman. I don't even mean: I am a soul.
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I mean beyond that.
Beyond the identities, the constructions, the divisions and labels.
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Perhaps you have already made experiences in that place beyond. I wouldn't be surprised if you have. But imagine what it would be like if you explore this dimension together with an intimate group of like-spirited women. Moving towards becoming No-One, together.
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So back to the initial question: Why should we be interested in becoming No-One?
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Well my Love, on your path you have probably also noticed the pleasure of becoming Some-One. The wonderful feeling of clarity, acknowledgement and confirmation when a new identity reveals itself.
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But this is not the final station is it?
Isn't it Life's deepest desire to expand beyond any kind of container?
To move beyond any kind of label, identity or cage?
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Because it is there, or rather here, that we are in fact simply Life.
And when we experience this, well words cannot do justice, but nothing will be the same again.
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So perhaps becoming No-One is simply a natural place to experience.
One that can even support you in your vocation of being of service.
Because when we are of service, it isn't about us anyway.
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So will you come explore with us?
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About the Retreat
On the morning of Sunday the 27th of October you will be met by me and my support in a beautiful location in the forest.
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We will enter our ceremony space in silence as we take our place in our circle and allow the day to unfold.
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The first half of the day will be dedicated to release. Dropping old structures and emotions. Through an intense process of dance meditation we will use the music, our body and voice to unwrap ourselves and make space.
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Followed by a silent break where we are free to wonder in the garden and be with the forest.
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We will continue the second part of the day with an energetic journey. Again guided by music we will travel through the different dimensions of Life. Allowing ourselves to go beyond what we thought was us, and further.
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And finally we will take our time to come back, share, land, integrate and implement. Ensuring that none of us will be flying home, but rather setting the right conditions for the experience to unfold in the time to come.
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There are many more aspects to all of the processes of course, but let's leave these for the day itself.
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Practical Information
Here you will find all the practical information about this 1-day retreat. Please know that if anything is unclear you can always reach out to me per DM / email or plan in a call to ask all your questions.
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Date: Sunday the 27th of October
Time: from 11AM - 5PM (approximately)
Location: Nuenen near Eindhoven
Price: €120 +VAT
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INCLUDING:
Snacks and a hearty lunch & a 30 min 1:1 integration call after the retreat.
You will also have the option to join the "Cosmic Exchange" session on Tuesday the 5th of November from 11AM - 1PM (which is a part of the group program) as a chance to speak with the other women as well.
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Before signing up for this retreat I would love to have a chat with you first. It will allow us both to feel into the space and what is there for you. You can send me an email if you would like to write first or you can directly plan a call in my calendar using the button below.
My Love, I can't wait to share this day with you.
It will be an opportunity for all of us to allow our greatness to unfold. Spreading our wings.
No holding back, no limitations.
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A space in which we can show our true colors, with others who can actually see us.
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And most importantly, a day in which we can experience joy & connection while walking this path. Because there's no need for us to make it more heavy, complicated or lonely than it actually is.
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It's Life.
And it's extraordinary.
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With Love & Devotion,
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Tessa Isabella
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What others say about me & my work
"It is hard to put into words what you have awaken within me. But I will try, also as a sign, to once more, express my gratitude. When I started the 4-month mentorship program in August 2023, I did not know what to expect. All I knew was, that there was a calling and a longing within me, pushing me towards new spheres. Starting the mentorship during a period of life where I started to question my status quo (perfectionism was governing my life and exhaustion accompanying it), we opened our journey with a beautiful ceremony in your apartment, where you invited me to imagine a temple within me, a holy space that can hold me and support me in difficult times. Back then, I did not know yet how exactly this temple, this core of mine, would unfold in the coming weeks.
The sessions with you were different than any other coaching or therapy session I attended before; they were neither pushing, nor blaming but quite the opposite: gentle, and empowering. And yet, or rather, because of that softness and belief in my inner wisdom, these sessions were more powerful and transformative than anything I have experienced so far. The guided meditations through my present and my past, my patterns, and beliefs, my hopes, and my fears, helped me to gently walk through protective walls I have constructed over time. Closing my eyes, listening to your voice, picturing myself, my stories, and my beliefs, you, each time, managed to gently unravel the knots that have formed within me over time, and which have started to block this flow of life, this lightness of being that I was, deep down, profoundly striving for. Numerous other sessions and a mystical trip through the forest later, I realized the four months were slowly coming to an end…
And then, there we were, sitting, once again, face to face to each other in your candle-lit and ayurveda-scented apartment, snuggled into pillows and blankets, drinking tea, and enjoying Christmassy crackers, to celebrate and honour the closing of this transformative journey we had. And just as I walked out of your apartment, a rush of gratitude and awe arrived, leading me to tears. Helping somebody to open one’s heart for receiving – receiving the many gifts of life, receiving compliments, receiving love – is probably the biggest present you can make to a person. And, with Christmas before the door, this was the present you gave to me. But I did not only begin to receive “presents” and impulses from the outside, I also started to welcome and embrace the wisdom, within me: Throughout the mentorship you have helped me to listed to my body again, listen to what my intuition has to say, listen to myself, sitting down in calmness and trusting that I have the capacity and the strength to decide on how I want my life to look like.
May you help many more women to find their inner core (again) and live up to this mystical strength we all possess deep down in our very own and unique inner temple.
Sending you lots of love and appreciation."
Nika - Berlin
"Celebrating a journey with Tessa - what is the aftermath a few weeks later….
It is all still settling in with joy, fullness of life and excitement. I did stand up for myself at work, get up early on my days off, sleep better, rest much more and don’t drain my body with too much sport. I feel female and fearless seeing a guy and know I will ride the waves of life. It is a new as well known feeling of being myself, the best version of today and tomorrow is to come... It's been extreme how our journey has changed and shaped me."
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Ina - Germany
"Dear, what should I call you? Tessa, woman, sister, guru, energetic force, light, powerhouse. You are it all and simultaneously you are nothing at all. A big thank you from the bottom of my heart and body for the Satsang from last Sunday... It was a big piece of the puzzle for me to be in a field where unlimitedness is safe. I wasn't aware of how much my body and soul were longing for this... And now I can feel how everything comes together. My energetic force is turned on! And this Satsang allowed me to now also experience joy and bliss in unlimited ways. It was a pleasure to experience you in full power. It was magical."
"First off: THANK YOU! Danke and also thanks, for inviting me to this wonderful three month journey with you. Although I cannot believe it is already over, I can also not believe how much growth is possible in only three months (but yes, I could easily continue doing sessions with you...).
If you are hesitant (like me in the beginning) whether or not to do the journey: please do it! You wont regret it. When Tessa reached out to me and proposed to do the three-month-journey, I thought I was at a good point in my life. I had overcome depression, loss, heartbreak, and a PhD. I was also in a transitional phase with a lot of travel and tried telling myself going abroad was going to consolidate my mental stability and magically reveal the direction of my future steps in life just because I change scenery. Luckily, Tessa showed me this was the perfect time to actively invest in myself and work on my inner joy – so I wouldn't simply stay stable, but become more connected and brave with myself. And that's exactly what happened.
Already in the beautiful opening ceremony in Tessa's flat I realized that my current mental stability was nothing but emotion-control over my fears of falling back into depression and the all too familiar feeling of utter despair. But avoiding sadness doesn't equal a joyful life and although I had no plan in mind of topics I'd want to "tackle", in each session throughout the 3 months Tessa helped me dismantle more and more layers of the stinky onion that covered my inner most me. It is hard to explain, as it is not like traditional therapy, but through talk and meditation to music I felt save enough to let frightening emotions and memories come up and go through them (and wow, they just waited for their chance to be dealt with :).
Tessa created a setting where anger, sadness, fear, or arrogance and pride were allowed and okay, helping me to get to the point of understanding that the most pressing quest for me on this journey was to find home and peace within myself and start trusting and valuing me in order to move forward stronger and actively living my life – might sound easy, but it is not at all and it was a long, tearful but very enlightening road to get there. The months went by so quickly, but very intensely and I am forever grateful that I got the chance to go on this journey that had a significant impact on me.
I thought I had become an emotional rock and if I want to, I can still be, but through this journey with Tessa I somehow developed or found this warm feeling inside my chest, this calm homely feeling just by myself that I now draw so much energy from. Thank you Tessa, you magician! <3"
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Vera - Berlin
"First of all: Thank you, Tessa! Thank you for your impulses, your courage, for the guidance, for the challenge! I was skeptical at first whether another self-awareness-experience (as part of my training I have already had many individual and group therapy sessions) could really mean so much more growth. At the same time, Tessa kept touching on topics in her texts and posts for which I wished for a change - less struggling, less head, more gut, more intuition, more courage to be me. In the end, we decided together to take this gut feeling seriously as a first step, and I decided to engage in the process.
Best decision! Tessa's free, intuitive, sometimes impulsive and challenging approach enabled me to embark on the journey in a completely different way. It required feeling into myself more than thinking about myself as before. It also meant less avoidance, more confrontation with not-yet-knowledge and questions that then drove me again. At the same time, Tessa also had a sense of pause, of the balance between challenging oneself and letting yourself be, without motive, coming to rest.
The journey enabled me to really understand connections, imprints in me, physically, emotionally, not just to know about them, and to be able to deal with them in a self-determined way. All this was possible thanks to Tessa's supportive and encouraging guidance, which was always more of an offer than a request, and thus left room for me to decide for myself, but also demanded this again and again. But besides work, it also meant a whole lot of fun! Joining Tessa's curiosity, her perception and also questioning of all our must-dos is fun because it is liberating. Thank you for this experience!"
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Eva - Berlin
"Since we met for the first time in the dance meditation in Tempelhof, it is hard to describe how special and transforming experience it has been for me. I didn't know there is so much into me that should be opened, released, let free to go.
Then we already worked a bit together, but I was insecure and not ready yet to jump into our journey together. But this also has shown that there might always be the right time in different stages of your life for different things.
Our 4 month journey has been a Big Magic. I was thinking, how it will be for me to take on this journey with you together with such a big changes in my life - losing my job, taking the opportunity to go on a break after more than 10 years of intense run after my career, then starting a new job, starting my executive studies and all of that together with additional little miracle to come - my way to motherhood.
It is actually hard to put it into words and not everyone will understand it, but this journey has been so many things to me - working through some painful and hard memories, understanding what kind of practical methods work for me when I get confused, transforming myself into a new stage of my life, discovering my spiritual awareness, and mostly - understanding that so much magic is already in me, and I just have to open it up.
But the easiest way to visualise this outcome for me, how I have been feeling after our 4 month journey, are those moments when I am simply walking the street. Looking around, observing the world... and I am smiling. All the people passing me by are in their own thoughts and might not be noticing things. I am here, in this beautiful world, in this moment, feeling the internal strength and happiness. Feeling the magic.
Thank you for everything my dear Tessa, I have been so lucky to have found you and looking forward to all the beautiful moments that are yet to come!"
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Liva - Germany
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