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Working 1:1

You are longing to be in a space where you can be all and nothing.

Where your greatness is seen, and the small and vulnerable one is held.

You are tired of constantly pushing yourself, being critical on yourself and you just want to rest in the knowing that "I am safe & I am enough".

You are ready to fly even higher and willing to ground yourself even more firmly.

As simply as it sounds, you want to LIVE. Yet you feel like you're not fully living yet. There's more to it and you want it.

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"The greatest gift one can receive, is the gift of Life

It's a brief Journey.

A rare occasion, beyond comprehension.

It's all there is, yet it's missed out on.

 

Life is Here.

Ready for You.

 

Are you?"

Unwrapping you like the Gift you are

As a human being it is our innate desire to expand.

To expand beyond what is known, beyond who we are right now and to touch the very essence of life.

But do you also feel that this desire to expand can sometimes be muddled up by our believe that we always need to work, push, strive and grow?

Yes, life is about growth. But just look at nature, it's not aiming to grow - it just does.

And the more conscious you approach this life, the more you are aligned with yourself and the (invisible) structures around you, the more this growth will happen naturally.

And by doing so, you will automatically impact others.

Because my dear, I know and see your longing for a better world.

Your eye for detail and beauty are gifts that cannot be underestimated.

So just imagine what it will feel like when we start unwrapping your like the gift you are. Gently taking of those layers that weren't even yours to begin with, slowly making our way to your Essence.

Where your innate joy, your talents and visions for this life are eagerly awaiting you -  ready for the adventure of a life time.

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Working with me

Being in my space, means being in a field of joy, lightness and curiosity. Not because we won't pay attention to the unpleasant or dark, but simply because we approach them with compassionate attention and curiosity.

Working with me means that you are willing to, under my guidance, let go of those things that aren't truly you:

Experiences, beliefs, identities, fears and habits.

Because your longing for Life is bigger.

Being in my space will allow you to feel safe. No matter your state, no matter what you say or feel, no matter your questions.

Because my vibe is an energetic permission slip for you to simply Be.

I am devoted to you.

Because I am devoted to Life.

So here I am.

How can we work together?

Well my dear, every person is different. Every phase of life requires something different and there's no 1 size fits all.

So when you feel the excitement and pull to go on a journey inwards together, we will first have a call to see what this journey can look like.

We'll speak about things such as the length of our time together (maybe a few weeks, maybe a few months), the amount of 1:1 sessions or full-day intensives, etc. These are all things you don't have to worry about right now. 

The only step you may take right now is to plan this call with me and we will see and feel together what this will look like.

Or we notice that I am not the right person for you right now and I'll give you my advise on how to continue your journey instead.

 

Everything is possible. 

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Lightness of Being & Doing

Oh how heavy we can make this life for ourselves.

Yes, we experience and endure.

But we over-complicate things with our own mind and story-telling.

With holding on to old pains, or pains that weren't even ours to begin with.

You're already very good at being harsh towards yourself. So we don't need to push you any more.

So, what if I tell you that:

It is allowed to feel Light.

It is okay to "simply" follow the pull of Joy.

It is so right to want to play in life and feel that sparkle.

Your Journey, your Path, your work and impact don't need to be complicated. Because Life (not the story, but the Source itself) is indeed very simple.

So my dear, are you ready to accept the Lightness of Being & Doing into your life?

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What others say about me & my work

"It is hard to put into words what you have awaken within me. But I will try, also as a sign, to once more, express my gratitude. When I started the 4-month mentorship program in August 2023, I did not know what to expect. All I knew was, that there was a calling and a longing within me, pushing me towards new spheres. Starting the mentorship during a period of life where I started to question my status quo (perfectionism was governing my life and exhaustion accompanying it), we opened our journey with a beautiful ceremony in your apartment, where you invited me to imagine a temple within me, a holy space that can hold me and support me in difficult times. Back then, I did not know yet how exactly this temple, this core of mine, would unfold in the coming weeks.  
The sessions with you were different than any other coaching or therapy session I attended before; they were neither pushing, nor blaming but quite the opposite: gentle, and empowering. And yet, or rather, because of that softness and belief in my inner wisdom, these sessions were more powerful and transformative than anything I have experienced so far. The guided meditations through my present and my past, my patterns, and beliefs, my hopes, and my fears, helped me to gently walk through protective walls I have constructed over time. Closing my eyes, listening to your voice, picturing myself, my stories, and my beliefs, you, each time, managed to gently unravel the knots that have formed within me over time, and which have started to block this flow of life, this lightness of being that I was, deep down, profoundly striving for. Numerous other sessions and a mystical trip through the forest later, I realized the four months were slowly coming to an end… 
And then, there we were, sitting, once again, face to face to each other in your candle-lit and ayurveda-scented apartment, snuggled into pillows and blankets, drinking tea, and enjoying Christmassy crackers, to celebrate and honour the closing of this transformative journey we had. And just as I walked out of your apartment, a rush of gratitude and awe arrived, leading me to tears. Helping somebody to open one’s heart for receiving – receiving the many gifts of life, receiving compliments, receiving love – is probably the biggest present you can make to a person. And, with Christmas before the door, this was the present you gave to me. But I did not only begin to receive “presents” and impulses from the outside, I also started to welcome and embrace the wisdom, within me: Throughout the mentorship you have helped me to listed to my body again, listen to what my intuition has to say, listen to myself, sitting down in calmness and trusting that I have the capacity and the strength to decide on how I want my life to look like. 
May you help many more women to find their inner core (again) and live up to this mystical strength we all possess deep down in our very own and unique inner temple.
Sending you lots of love and appreciation."


Nika - Berlin

 "Celebrating a journey with Tessa - what is the aftermath a few weeks later….
It is all still settling in with joy, fullness of life and excitement. I did stand up for myself at work, get up early on my days off, sleep better, rest much more and don’t drain my body with too much sport. I feel female and fearless seeing a guy and know I will ride the waves of life. It is a new as well known feeling of being myself, the best version of today and tomorrow is to come... It's been extreme how our journey has changed and shaped me."

Ina - Germany

"First off: THANK YOU! Danke and also thanks, for inviting me to this wonderful three month journey with you. Although I cannot believe it is already over, I can also not believe how much growth is possible in only three months (but yes, I could easily continue doing sessions with you...).

If you are hesitant (like me in the beginning) whether or not to do the journey: please do it! You wont regret it. When Tessa reached out to me and proposed to do the three-month-journey, I thought I was at a good point in my life. I had overcome depression, loss, heartbreak, and a PhD. I was also in a transitional phase with a lot of travel and tried telling myself going abroad was going to consolidate my mental stability and magically reveal the direction of my future steps in life just because I change scenery. Luckily, Tessa showed me this was the perfect time to actively invest in myself and work on my inner joy – so I wouldn't simply stay stable, but become more connected and brave with myself. And that's exactly what happened.

Already in the beautiful opening ceremony in Tessa's flat I realized that my current mental stability was nothing but emotion-control over my fears of falling back into depression and the all too familiar feeling of utter despair. But avoiding sadness doesn't equal a joyful life and although I had no plan in mind of topics I'd want to "tackle", in each session throughout the 3 months Tessa helped me dismantle more and more layers of the stinky onion that covered my inner most me. It is hard to explain, as it is not like traditional therapy, but through talk and meditation to music I felt save enough to let frightening emotions and memories come up and go through them (and wow, they just waited for their chance to be dealt with :).

Tessa created a setting where anger, sadness, fear, or arrogance and pride were allowed and okay, helping me to get to the point of understanding that the most pressing quest for me on this journey was to find home and peace within myself and start trusting and valuing me in order to move forward stronger and actively living my life – might sound easy, but it is not at all and it was a long, tearful but very enlightening road to get there. The months went by so quickly, but very intensely and I am forever grateful that I got the chance to go on this journey that had a significant impact on me.

I thought I had become an emotional rock and if I want to, I can still be, but through this journey with Tessa I somehow developed or found this warm feeling inside my chest, this calm homely feeling just by myself that I now draw so much energy from. Thank you Tessa, you magician! <3"

Vera - Berlin

 

"First of all: Thank you, Tessa! Thank you for your impulses, your courage, for the guidance, for the challenge! I was skeptical at first whether another self-awareness-experience (as part of my training I have already had many individual and group therapy sessions) could really mean so much more growth. At the same time, Tessa kept touching on topics in her texts and posts for which I wished for a change - less struggling, less head, more gut, more intuition, more courage to be me. In the end, we decided together to take this gut feeling seriously as a first step, and I decided to engage in the process. 
Best decision! Tessa's free, intuitive, sometimes impulsive and challenging approach enabled me to embark on the journey in a completely different way. It required feeling into myself more than thinking about myself as before. It also meant less avoidance, more confrontation with not-yet-knowledge and questions that then drove me again. At the same time, Tessa also had a sense of pause, of the balance between challenging oneself and letting yourself be, without motive, coming to rest.
The journey enabled me to really understand connections, imprints in me, physically, emotionally, not just to know about them, and to be able to deal with them in a self-determined way. All this was possible thanks to Tessa's supportive and encouraging guidance, which was always more of an offer than a request, and thus left room for me to decide for myself, but also demanded this again and again. But besides work, it also meant a whole lot of fun! Joining Tessa's curiosity, her perception and also questioning of all our must-dos is fun because it is liberating. Thank you for this experience!"

Eva - Berlin

"Since we met for the first time in the dance meditation in Tempelhof, it is hard to describe how special and transforming experience it has been for me. I didn't know there is so much into me that should be opened, released, let free to go. 

 

Then we already worked a bit together, but I was insecure and not ready yet to jump into our journey together. But this also has shown that there might always be the right time in different stages of your life for different things. 

 

Our 4 month journey has been a Big Magic. I was thinking, how it will be for me to take on this journey with you together with such a big changes in my life - losing my job, taking the opportunity to go on a break after more than 10 years of intense run after my career, then starting a new job, starting my executive studies and all of that together with additional little miracle to come - my way to motherhood. 

 

It is actually hard to put it into words and not everyone will understand it, but this journey has been so many things to me - working through some painful and hard memories, understanding what kind of practical methods work for me when I get confused, transforming myself into a new stage of my life, discovering my spiritual awareness, and mostly - understanding that so much magic is already in me, and I just have to open it up. 

 

But the easiest way to visualise this outcome for me, how I have been feeling after our 4 month journey, are those moments when I am simply walking the street. Looking around, observing the world... and I am smiling. All the people passing me by are in their own thoughts and might not be noticing things. I am here, in this beautiful world, in this moment, feeling the internal strength and happiness. Feeling the magic. 

 

Thank you for everything my dear Tessa, I have been so lucky to have found you and looking forward to all the beautiful moments that are yet to come!"

Liva - Germany

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